Why Black Men Use The Guise Of "Self-Hate" To Control The Beauty Rituals & Freedoms Of Black Women

"Calling the beauty choices of black women that don’t appeal to you an agenda is definitely a reach, considering that all men, including the men who supposedly want to see more black women loving themselves by rocking their natural hair and minimal makeup, have an agenda for women. I mean, how exactly do you as a man determine if a woman loves herself by her appearance?

As far as I’m concerned, the only thing men can qualify through appearance alone is how much they can control women. Trust me ladies, men do not give a shit if women love themselves. Men give a shit about attaching the concept of self-love to beauty standards they believe women should follow when self-love is much more expansive than their opinions."