The Martyr And Her Suicide Mission
"Self-preservation is the first law of nature, and to healthy, evolved, emotionally stable individuals uplifting others through their own suffering is not appealing to them. But not to the martyrs of the world! They enjoy screaming at hyperactive kids in the grocery store. They enjoy the embarrassment of removing themselves from concerts, theme parks, airports, shopping malls and vacation venues due to their child’s temper tantrum and losing money in the process.
There is something about remaining loyal to a man who tries his hardest to opt out of spending time with his wife that turns them on. They enjoy this shit so much they have multiple marriages and children to repeat the suffering over and over again, and they evangelize this suffering by demanding childless and childfree individuals and couples to follow their lead!
Because you don’t know unconditional love until you are dying slowly for someone else who doesn’t appreciate your sacrifice, let alone know about it!"
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