"My Kids Come First!" Um, Are You Sure About That?!

"I am using my platforms to spread the contrarian gospel that contradicts this idea that all mothers are feminine goddesses who were blessed with children instead of women who were extremely unprepared for this role and are winging it just because they had unprotected sex. Not to downplay or disrespect anyone’s experience or genuine happiness and fulfillment in this role, but did your god actually bless you with a child…or did you have a baby just to keep a man or because you refused to get an abortion? Just a thought.

Many of these 'mama bears' do not consider that children are not necessarily blessings from the spirit world, especially since some of these ladies were not meant to be mothers. They were actually on a trajectory to living authentically by way of college, traveling, getting married, starting a business, or climbing the corporate ladder. But once they fell pregnant these grand plans had to be delayed or even stopped altogether.

So at some point you will have to come to terms with the fact that motherhood is certainly a path to more life lessons and personal growth, but it might not have been your path."